“How could you talk about your wedding before proposing?” asked a friend of mine.
“Why not?” I responded.
“Because it spoils the surprise!” she screamed.
“Spoil what surprise? She already knows I’m marrying her no matter what. Besides, she won’t see it coming,” I responded.
This was one of many variations of conversations I have had with a bunch of different friends the last couple of weeks. Why does marriage have to be a surprise? If you both know how you feel about each other and you both have always had the goal of marriage, then tying the knot is inevitable.
Karen isn’t going to be surprised that I’m going to be proposing to her. She’s going to be surprised with when and how I do it. Unless of course, she knows me so well that she can read my thoughts. This is going to be fun.